As a parent, you play a special role in contributing to
the needs and development of youngsters.
Through your encouragement and good example, you can
help assure that all the boys and girls learn good sportsmanship and
self-discipline. In AYSO, young people learn to work together, to
sacrifice for the good of the team, to enjoy winning and deal
appropriately with defeat - all while becoming physically fit and
healthy. Best of all, they have fun.
SUPPORT YOUR CHILD
Supporting your child by giving encouragement and
showing interest in their team is very important.
Help your child work toward skill improvement and good
sportsmanship in every game. Teach your child that hard work and an
honest effort are often more important than victory - that way your
child will always be a winner despite the outcome of the game!
ALWAYS BE POSITIVE
Parents serve as role models for their children. Become
aware of this and work to be a positive role model. Applaud good plays
by your child's team as well as good plays by the opposing team.
Support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse
from youth sports activities.
REMEMBER: YOUR CHILD WANTS TO HAVE FUN
Remember that your child is the one playing
soccer, not you. It's very important to let children establish their own
goals - to play the game for themselves. Take care not to impose your
own standards and goals on them.
Don't put too heavy a burden on your child to win games.
Surveys reveal that 72% of children would rather play for a losing
team than ride the bench for a winning team.
Children play for the fun of playing.
REINFORCE POSITIVE BEHAVIOR
Positive reinforcement is the best way to help your
child achieve their goals and their natural fear of failure. Nobody
likes to make mistakes. If your child does make one, remember it's all
part of learning, so encourage your child's efforts and point out the
good things your child accomplished.
DON'T BE A SIDELINE COACH OR REFEREE
Coaches and referees are usually parents just like you.
They volunteer their time to help make your child's youth soccer
experience a positive one. They need your support too.
That means refraining from coaching or refereeing from
the sidelines. As a volunteer organization, there's usually always an
opportunity for you to take your interest in coaching or refereeing to
the next level and become one yourself.